The Benefits of Online Counselling in the UK: Finding Support That Fits Around Your Life

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Life doesn’t always slow down when we’re struggling. Work, family responsibilities, relationships and the pressures of everyday life can leave us feeling overwhelmed, anxious or emotionally exhausted.

Perhaps you’ve been feeling that things are becoming harder to manage, or maybe you’ve reached a point where you would like some space to understand yourself better. Whatever has brought you here, you don’t have to have everything figured out before starting counselling.

Taking the first step towards support can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be rushed. Sometimes, simply having a safe space to talk can be the beginning of positive change.

One of the many benefits of online counselling in the UK is that it makes therapy more accessible than ever. Whether you live in a busy city, a rural community, or simply prefer the comfort and privacy of your own home, online counselling allows you to access professional support in a way that fits around your life.

What Is Online Counselling?

Online counselling is professional therapy delivered through secure video sessions. While the setting may be different from traditional face-to-face counselling, the heart of therapy remains the same – a safe, confidential relationship where you can explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences without fear of judgement.

Many people are surprised by how natural online counselling feels. Being in familiar surroundings can often help you feel more relaxed and comfortable, making it easier to talk openly about what’s on your mind.

You don’t need to arrive at your first session knowing exactly what to say. Counselling is a space where we can gently explore what is happening for you, one step at a time.

The Benefits of Online Counselling

Flexibility Around Your Lifestyle

One of the biggest advantages of online counselling is its flexibility. Without the need to travel, therapy can fit more easily around work, family life or other commitments.

Life can be busy, and making time for yourself isn’t always easy. Online therapy removes some of the practical barriers that can make seeking support feel difficult.

Whether you’re working from home, caring for children, travelling for work or simply have a full schedule, online counselling makes it easier to prioritise your emotional well-being.

Access to the Right Counsellor

Choosing a counsellor is about much more than finding someone nearby. It’s about finding someone you feel comfortable talking to and someone whose approach feels right for you.

With online counselling, you’re able to choose a counsellor regardless of where you live. Feeling heard, understood and accepted is one of the most important parts of the counselling process.

Finding the right person to support you can take time, and that’s okay. The relationship between counsellor and client is at the heart of effective therapy.

The Comfort of Your Own Space

For many people, attending therapy from home feels less daunting than travelling to a counselling practice.

Being in a familiar environment can help reduce anxiety, allowing you to settle into the session more comfortably. Whether it’s your favourite chair, a cup of tea or simply the privacy of your own space, those small comforts can make a meaningful difference.

Having therapy online means you can create a space where you feel safe and at ease while taking time for yourself.

Consistent Support Wherever You Are

Life changes. You may move home, travel for work, begin a new job or experience changes in your health or family circumstances.

Online counselling allows you to continue your therapeutic journey without unnecessary interruptions, helping you maintain the consistency that can be so valuable during times of change.

A Counselling Approach That Puts You at the Centre

One of the wonderful things about counselling is that there isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach. Every person brings their own experiences, challenges and hopes for the future.

In my own practice, I combine Person-Centred Counselling with Solution-Focused Therapy.

I believe everyone deserves a space where they feel truly heard, accepted and valued.

A person-centred approach means I offer a warm, compassionate and non-judgemental space where you can talk openly at your own pace. You are the expert in your own life, and together we’ll explore your experiences with curiosity, empathy and respect.

Alongside this, I use solution-focused techniques to help you recognise your strengths, build on what is already working and identify practical steps towards the changes you’d like to make.

Counselling isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about developing a deeper understanding of yourself, recognising your strengths and finding ways to move forward that feel meaningful to you.

Every person is different, so our sessions will be tailored to your individual needs. Whether you need space to process difficult emotions or you’re ready to focus on positive change, we will work together in a way that feels right for you.

What Can Online Counselling Help With?

People seek counselling for many different reasons. You don’t have to be in crisis to benefit from therapy.

Sometimes we simply reach a point where we recognise that we would like support, clarity or a different perspective.

Online counselling can provide support with:

– Anxiety and excessive worry
– Stress and burnout
– Depression and low mood
– Bereavement and loss
– Low self-esteem
– Relationship difficulties
– Life transitions
– Workplace stress
– Emotional overwhelm
– Personal growth and self-awareness

Whatever has brought you to counselling, you deserve a space where you can talk openly and be met with empathy, understanding and respect.

Is Online Counselling Effective?

Research has shown that online therapy can be just as effective as face-to-face counselling for many common mental health concerns.

What makes the greatest difference isn’t whether counselling takes place online or in person – it’s the quality of the relationship between you and your counsellor.

Feeling safe, listened to and understood creates the foundation for meaningful and lasting change.

Final Thoughts

Looking after your mental well-being is one of the most important investments you can make in yourself.

If you’ve been considering online counselling, perhaps this is the gentle reminder that you don’t have to face life’s challenges alone.

You don’t need to wait until things feel unbearable before reaching out. Counselling can be a space to pause, reflect and better understand yourself at any stage of life.

Taking that first step may feel difficult, but you can take it at your own pace. Sometimes the smallest step towards support can open the door to meaningful change.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

If you’re looking for online counselling and would like to explore whether we’re the right fit, I’d be delighted to hear from you.

Whether you’re experiencing anxiety, stress, low mood, bereavement, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem or simply feeling overwhelmed, counselling offers an opportunity to pause, reflect and move forward with greater confidence and self-understanding.

You don’t have to have all the answers before reaching out. If you have questions about online counselling or would like to arrange an initial consultation, please get in touch. I’d be pleased to support you on your journey towards improved emotional well-being.

Could Hypnotherapy Help You Manage Your IBS?

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Living with Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) can be incredibly challenging. It’s not just about digestive discomfort—it can affect your confidence, social life, work, and emotional wellbeing. The uncertainty of when symptoms might appear can create a cycle of worry and stress, which, in turn, can make IBS symptoms even more difficult to manage.


At Illuminating Minds, I understand how overwhelming this can feel, and my aim is to help you break that cycle in a calm, supportive, and positive way.


Understanding the Mind-Gut Connection

Your brain and digestive system are constantly communicating through what’s known as the gut-brain axis. When life feels stressful or overwhelming, your gut often responds. This is why many people notice their IBS symptoms worsen during periods of stress or anxiety.


Using Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, I help clients work with this powerful connection. Rather than focusing on the problems of the past, I focus on helping you build the resources and resilience needed to move towards better health and wellbeing.

Hypnotherapy encourages a deeply relaxed state, helping to calm the nervous system and reduce the stress response. As your mind becomes calmer, many people notice their digestive system begins to settle too.


How Solution Focused Hypnotherapy May Help


Research has shown that gut-directed hypnotherapy can be an effective way of managing IBS symptoms for many people. Combined with the positive, forward-looking principles of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, it may help you to:

  • Reduce abdominal pain and discomfort
  • Ease bloating and bowel irregularity
  • Lower stress and anxiety that may contribute to symptoms
  • Feel more confident in social situations and everyday life
  • Improve sleep and overall wellbeing
  • Regain a sense of control over your health

Every person’s experience of IBS is unique, so I tailor every session to your individual needs, goals, and circumstances.


Flexible Support to Suit You


At Illuminating Minds, I offer both online and in-person Solution Focused Hypnotherapy sessions, giving you the flexibility to choose the option that suits you best.

Whether you prefer the convenience of meeting from the comfort of your own home or the reassurance of a face-to-face session, I provide the same personalised, compassionate support in a safe and welcoming environment.


Looking Forward with Confidence


Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is different from many traditional talking therapies. While I acknowledge what’s bringing you to therapy, I don’t ask you to dwell on the past. Instead, I help you understand how your brain responds to stress, teach you practical strategies to feel calmer, and support you in making positive, lasting changes.

My goal is to help you feel empowered—not defined by your IBS.


Take the First Step Towards Feeling Better


If IBS is affecting your quality of life, you don’t have to manage it alone. With the right support, it is possible to reduce the impact of symptoms and regain confidence in your everyday life.

At Illuminating Minds, I provide compassionate, personalised Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, available both online and in person, to help you feel calmer, healthier, and more in control.

If you’re ready to explore how hypnotherapy could support you, I’d love to hear from you. Get in touch to arrange an initial consultation, and together we’ll create a positive path towards improved wellbeing. My role is to support you every step of the way as you work towards feeling happier, healthier, and more confident.

Why a positive mindset can bring a feeling of joy

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As a solution focused hypnotherapist one the most important element of this role is to help educate those that come to me for help, on why the brain works the way that it does and what we can do to help ourselves.

From the outset, I explain that how we think is a lot of the time how we end up feeling. The reason for this is that within our brains, we have the chemistry to produce feel good chemicals or feel bad chemicals. Obviously, it isn’t just as simple as this otherwise we would all be thinking happy thoughts, then feeling joy in our lives. But most of us can give ourselves a few moments to sit and reflect on a happy memory and notice that the memory gives us a joyful more positive feeling.
For many, Christmas can be a happy place and space, as many memories of a joyful childhood are recreated every year in a bubble of goodwill and kindness. But equally for some it can represent overwhelm, too much to do or sadly for some, memories associated that are not so kind. But either way, we can see that how we think about something affects us. This is where Hypnotherapy comes in, as it offers someone a chance to identify a negative thought, and its associated negative feeling and look to reframe this. When we change this thought to how you want to think and feel, we thereby replace the negative feelings with something more positive.

I liken the process to walking into bar and choosing whether to order from the spirit optics a glass of joy chemicals or going to the other end and ordering a glass of feeling miserable. When you can take a step back and see what thoughts are doing the ordering, you then get to choose what you would like to feel.

So, if you are struggling to feel joy in your life, why not try Hypnotherapy and see if the process can work for you and change how you feel.

Transform Your Life: Hypnotherapy for ADHD Support

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If you have been diagnosed with ADHD or have a suspicion that you may have some of the traits of ADHD, you will be aware of the problematic issues that occur as a result.

These can include a loss of focus, an inability to complete a task before you are distracted by the next idea that comes to mind, worrying about remembering things or experiencing disorganisation around the home and in your work-life can also common issues faced. This often spiral, and leave a person feeling overwhelmed, increasing anxiety or leaving someone depressed and unable to know how to get themselves through the day.

This is where Hypnotherapy can help as a complimentary approach. Firstly, by talking through issues, and identifying where things are problematic and then looking at solutions to assist in organising your life and routines in a way that helps. This gives you a platform from which to begin reducing that overwhelming feeling. Once you can look forward with positivity, hypnotherapy can assist you by calming the mind allowing you to reduce the stress and keep focus for longer. With a calmer mind you can make better decisions, increase self-control thereby increasing self-esteem and tackle life with greater clarity, confidence and positivity.

Those who have ADHD traits can often find themselves with a disturbed sleep pattern. Did you know that it is estimated 25-50% of those who live with ADHD (ADD) suffer sleep problems. Hypnotherapy is an excellent way to help improve sleep patterns and improve your quality of sleep.

Reach out and take your next step towards getting understood and supported.

Manage Exam Stress with Hypnotherapy

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Once again it is that time of year. With University final exams and dissertations, not to mention A-levels and GCSES’s, it can soon become an overwhelming experience for many. The pressure to succeed can result in lost sleep, anxiety, anger, depression or sometimes all of these.

Hypnotherapy has emerged as a powerful tool that can help manage the heightened levels of stress. It can give the mind a holiday from the worries of it all, while at the same time helping the mind process all the information that is needed to best perform at your best. It takes us from our protective stressed out primitive mind and guides us towards a place where the mind no longer senses danger, our intellectual mind and we can relax and recover. It is from here where we come up with our best work, our best performances and our happy place. The more we can practise being relaxed, which hypnotherapy provides, the more we reduce worries, reduce stress hormones and allow ourselves to become our best.

Hypnotherapy is however more than just a tool for relaxation. It provides each individual with a tailored program and voyage of self discovery, arming you with information and directions that help unlock issues that are causing the problem in the first place. The visualisation techniques, used in hypnotherapy, can allow students to mentally rehearse the exam environment, giving time to prepare by imagining positive thoughts and positive outcomes. Visualising yourself in the exam room, sitting at your desk and everything goes well.

If this sounds like something you or someone you know would benefit from, please contact Illuminating Minds on 07725878880 or via our website.

Overcoming Dental Fear with Hypnotherapy

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Does the thought of visiting your dentist fill you with dread, fear or anxiety? This is a highly common problem that many of us suffer without resolution throughout our lives. Some can manage it of course, but for those of us that can’t, then Hypnotherapy can be a very powerful way to manage your thoughts and feelings regarding the whole process and allow you to get the treatment you need with the least amount of stress.

Phobias in general can often be dismissed as a sort of weird thing; people can be phobic of just about anything. For those of us that suffer with a Phobia, can literally be in fear of their lives.

So why does this happen?

Well, the dictionary will define a phobia as something that is an irrational fear of an object or circumstance. However, fear can be perfectly rational. If we are confronted with a charging rhinoceros for example, it would be perfectly acceptable to be afraid. Our fight or flight response kicks in, so that we might save ourselves.

If our distant ancestors experienced a life-or-death situation, they needed a way to ensure their survival. Imagine if one of our ancestors is ambushed by a sabre-toothed tiger. If they escaped, they might associate the rustle of tall grasses with a fear response in future preparing the body for a fight or flight.

Unfortunately, this learned response can be inexact, meaning that as people we can’t afford for the exact circumstances of the first attack to happen, before we trigger the fear response, because that might be too late. So, we can continue to irrationally process the similar circumstances, such as rustling of tall grass.

The same can be true of visiting the dentist. Rationally we know we will be well looked after by a professional, but on an unconscious level our fight or flight response is being triggered.

Hypnotherapy can help here, because it can relax the mind to a state where we can alter the way the mind processes the association with a visit to the dentist. We can reduce the threat response. This is also true for other phobias, we just need to re inform the subconscious mind that it is ok, to reimagine a visit to the dentist without the trauma or stress.

Phobias are never necessary; they cause distress, drain energy and stop people living full lives. Nobody should have to live with them.

If this sounds like something that might help you, please get in touch and we can start the process of making the situation manageable for you.

Overcoming Anxiety: How Solutions Change Your Mindset

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It may seem an obvious notion that by finding solutions to our problems we would immediately start to relieve worry and anxiety that can build up in us over time. However, for many suffering with anxiety often all we can see are the problems, and the idea of finding a solution can sometimes seem insurmountable.

The important thing to be aware of here is that when we look to find a solution, however big or small, we switch to a more positive part of our brain, the pre-frontal cortex. This is the part that is unique to humans, and where we are at our best. It is very difficult to feel both stressed and anxious while be completely present in thinking of ways to make solutions.

Think about that for a moment!

We can be anxious one minute, think of a solution and then go back to feeling anxious, but what we can’t do is feel both at the same time. The more time we spent focusing on thinking of solutions, the more time we spend away from our anxious feelings. Then when we find a solution and apply it, we have achieved something that makes us feel good.

So, with this information we learn that it is sensible to dedicate some time each day to sit down, break down our problems and try and come up with a solution. We may know what we want to achieve ultimately, but what we don’t sometimes apply is the idea that when problems are too large, we may need several steps to break this down, and so part of the solution might be just a very small thing that leads to the ultimate resolution.

If you are having trouble with this process, Solution Focused Therapy or Counselling is a very useful modality in which you can start this process for yourself. Solution Focused Therapy uses a variety of techniques, tools and questions that help refocus the mind to help you step away from your problems. Over time and with practise this then becomes your new normal.

Sounds like you?

Reach out and take the first step on the journey to finding your resolution.

How Hypnotherapy can help you get good quality sleep

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For many of us at some point in our lives we can be confronted with periods of insomnia and poor-quality sleep. Some of us wake bolt upright in a cold sweat in the middle of the night leaving us tired irritable and over time, if the symptoms persist, we are left feeling exhausted.

One of the main reasons for poor sleep is the impact that stress can have on our minds and bodies. If we understand that our bodies respond to the signals we send out from our minds, we can start to see that the way we are thinking can trigger the hormones of stress in bodies. Ironically sleep is a tool where we rest and regenerate and overcome our daily stresses, but if our worries start to overwhelm us then this can cause problems in two ways. Firstly, our bodies become over alert, so when it’s time to go to sleep we can’t, because we are ruminating on all our problems of the day, often unable to know where to start because they seem too many. Then if we do eventually fall asleep our mind has a problem. There is simply too much to process during our sleep, and this takes up huge amounts of energy, in fact more energy sleeping than being awake, so it bolts us upright to save energy.

The key part of our sleep where we process our anxious thoughts and issues of the day is during a time known as REM sleep (Rapid Eye Movement). Here we have a fantastic natural system that processes the events of our day, and moves any emotionally charged content from our primitive fight or flight parts of our brain, to the intellectual and reasoned parts of the our brain, so we still have this memory but we have stripped out emotional part of it. Therefore, we are often told by our parents from young to sleep on something, because more often than not when we wake up the next day, we don’t feel so bothered by situations that previously seemed overwhelming.

So, REM sleep is great when we have manageable number of things to worry about, but if you were to imagine each of us carries within us a stress bucket, in which we put all our troubles. This is then emptied during our sleep during periods of REM, but if we have too much in our stress bucket, the mind has too much work to do each night, and this is where our sleep problems begin.

So how can we overcome this? Well as a hypnotherapist one of the greatest tools we have is trance. Trance is very natural and ordinary to the body; in fact, we go into a trance many times a day. Any one with children will notice times when they are learning, when naturally they will glance away and for a short period they go into a trance. This is because the mind is processing the information in the brain, and trance is how we naturally do it. Hypnotherapy comes in here because it uses the power of trance. A good hypnotherapist creates a guided trance, where the mind can focus on positive thoughts and ideas and the body goes into the deep and rest and digest state just like during REM sleep. This can improve our sleep in two ways, firstly during the hypnotherapy sessions the mind is able to start to process and empty the stress bucket and resolve many issues you are carrying around. It also offers a positive voice, so instead of the worrying primitive brain, that worries about the past, or frets about the future, you have messages of reassurance and support. If we aren’t worrying about something, we aren’t putting more anxious thoughts into our stress bucket!!!

So the more we go into trance, the more relaxed and refreshed we start to feel, and the more we empty our stress buckets, so that when we do go to sleep the mind has less to worry about, uses less energy and allows you to remain in a deeper more refreshing sleep.

New year resolutions and the power of positivity

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Now that we have entered a new year in the light of the difficulties, we have all experienced over the course of the last year, so much hope is being placed on the importance of our health, personal relationships and mental health. This of course is the time we often re-evaluate our lives and challenge ourselves to be different and take a different course in the new year to the one that went before. It is an opportunity to wipe the slate lean and start again.

We draft our list, sometimes it’s a long list of hopes, and sometimes we come up with just one wish, be it giving up alcohol, start a fitness regime, making time to see more friends. At the core of all these new resolutions that we draft up, is the inner wish to want to make things different and better for ourselves. But for so many these resolutions last a few days, weeks if we are lucky. The trouble is we intellectually want the change, but often we don’t have the true desire to see it through.  This is the point where thinking in a positive way can make a world of difference to our success or failure in our pursuit of change.

If we look at why positive thinking is so important to everything we do, first we must understand the mind body connection.  If I were to describe to you a vivid description, while your eyes are closed, of holding a lemon, and getting you to imagine I that you were cutting up the lemon and putting a fresh slice into your mouth, and squeeze some lemon juice onto your tongue. I would be surprised if you didn’t find that your mouth would start to water even though the reality is that there is no lemon in sight. This because the primitive mind doesn’t know the difference between imagination and reality. What you tell your mind it starts to believe, and it has the ability and to trigger the chemical reactions it needs to ensure it is prepared to taste the sour lemon. The same is true for stress, or negative thinking. If we tell ourselves constantly things will go wrong or if we give our mind a reason for something to go wrong, the mind will look for ways to ensure that it will.

So, how does this relate to our resolutions? It’s quite simple, we need to not only tell our minds what we want, but we need to be positive that we will succeed.  if we tell our mind we are committed to the change we want to see, and really imagine this deeply with as much detail as possible, we can build and grow the desire to see out this change. The more we re-enforce what we want and infuse it with positivity we tell the part of our mind that runs the old negative patterns that hold us back that our new path is our what we truly desire. We literally grow new cells in our brain that wire a new pattern. The more we stick with the pattern with desire determination and positivity, the more likely the change will stick for the long term.

As a hypnotherapist, my role is to support the conscious will of the intellectual mind to convince the subconscious mind that any change is worth making. Trance simply stops opens up the barrier that prevents an alliance between the two and facilitates a strengthening of will to take the direction that the intellectual mind wants, reprogramming negative beliefs that are held at a subconscious level and creating new positive beliefs that represents the solutions you want to see.

Whether you have stuck with your resolutions, or you are needing help, I hope positivity can be the key to your overall success.

Best Wishes.

Craig

Coping with Covid-19 during Winter – Self Help Strategies

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These past months have been a great challenge for all us. We have had to cope with the loss of many of the things we have previously taken for granted. The company of others being a major one, and that is not with-standing the fear that the word Covid-19 strikes in many of us, in relation to our own health, or those of ones we love.

I myself have at times found my mind wandering into the realms of fear, placing my mind into the what ifs, and what might never happen mode. By returning to the present moment, and filling it with positive things, it allows me to centre myself. The following list of things, has empowered me to regain control, feel happier and able to bring balance to my own situation and I hope it can work for you too.

Regular Exercise

With the likes of Joe Wicks and Major Tom Moore, there has been plenty of inspiration to keep us moving over the summer months, both of these amazing individuals have shown that with positive thoughts and positive actions incredible things can be achieved, but as we enter Winter, and whilst we all cannot achieve the recognition those gentleman have, it shows us that things can be it still be achieved by people of all ages and that regular exercise remains as important as ever. We all know that physical activity is a great way of keeping our bodies healthy, but what is often forgotten or neglected is the importance it has on our Mental Health, keeping active helps us produce Serotonin, along with other feel good chemicals, that keep us calm and balanced and feeling braver and more in control.

Routine

By keeping a routine, we keep a purpose and motivation to carry on day to day. By having a routine, it informs our brain of our intentions, and if our intentions are positive, this allows us to feel positive.

Talking to others

Find a way to talk to those you love, this can be over the phone, Zoom calls, or maybe even writing to someone you love. (Look for the positives, think in a positive way).

Make laughter a way to be

Why not put on your favourite comedy shows and sit and enjoy and laugh. Laughing this helps boost our mood as well as helping us to relax.

Help others (interact in a positive way)

Helping others is known to give us a warm sense of purpose and helps us produce and release feel good chemicals in our brains. So not only do we feel good for doing something for someone else, that someone else gets to benefit too.

Appreciate what you do have (Gratitude)

This may seem and obvious thing to do, but so many of us can get caught up in focusing on what don’t have or what we appear we have lost, we forget to take the time in our daily routine to stop and reflect on what it is we do have, and to give thanks for this. Once again by thinking in a positive way we retrain our brain over time to look for all the things in life that are good for us. Our brains operate in a happier and more fulfilled and purposeful way when we train ourselves to give thanks, be it big or small, it all counts.

Meditation practises

If we try to keep our minds in the present moment, it can help our minds from wandering off into a cycle of negative thinking. Negative thoughts are heard by our subconscious mind, and it is here where we produce the wide variety of chemicals in our brains. If we think negative, we trigger the reactions that can lead to depression or anxiety, so it makes sense to try to avoid this way of thinking if possible.

Ways we can do this include;

  • Exercise
  • Reading
  • Gardening and or connecting with nature
  • Playing a Musical Instrument
  • Sitting quietly, focusing on you something you enjoy and holding that thought for as long as you can.
  • Listening to relaxing music, or a Hypnotherapy relaxation track.

Learn Something new

Use the lockdown time to learn something new, or revisit something you have loved doing in the past but not had the time.

Most of all try to enjoy the Yuletide and Christmas period as much as you can, it’s a great time for appreciating life, and reflecting on what we would like life to look like in the future.

From all at Illuminating Minds have a very Happy and Healthy Christmas and a Wonderful New Year